Summer Pruning and a 'Substitute' Gardener

Have you ever had a 'substitute' teacher?  

As most of us know, a substitute teacher didn't do things the same way our regular teacher would.

A few years ago, I was asked to help take care of the plants in my in-law's landscape.

Meticulously pruned desert ruellia (Ruellia peninsularis)

My father-in-law had been a meticulous gardener and took a lot of pride in his landscape.
Have you ever seen 'rounder' shrubs?

A few years earlier, I had designed his landscape and tried to convince him to allow his plants to grow into their natural shapes.  But as you can see from the photo above, he didn't follow my advice ;-)

He eventually took out his backyard grass and replaced it with artificial turf.  Whenever flowers or leaves would fall on the grass, he would vacuum them up - I'm not kidding.

We would often joke with each other about our very different styles of gardening - especially when he would come over for a visit and see my plants growing "wild and free" as he would say.  

But despite our differences, we shared the same love for plants and the garden.

Unfortunately, his gardening days were numbered and he asked me to come over and help him with the gardening tasks that he could no longer do.

My father-in-law was diagnosed with ALS (Lou Gehrig's disease) in October 2010 and it progressed rapidly.

So, I was the 'substitute' gardener and I was happy to be able to help out so that he could still enjoy the beauty of his garden, even if he could not care for it himself.

In early August of 2011, I lightly pruned back his gold lantana.  At this point, he spent most of his time indoors sitting down.  But, as I was pruning, I saw him slowly make his way out, with his walker, so he could watch me prune his plants.

At this point, he could no longer talk due to his ALS - if he could have spoken, he might have asked me to make the lantana 'rounder' :-)

After this light pruning, the lantana would grow back to its original size before stopping during winter.  If they had not been pruned, they would have look quite overgrown for my father-in-law's taste.
Light pruning involves removing 1/3 or less.  The timing of this light pruning is crucial - prune too late and your plants will be extra susceptible to damage from frost.  Don't prune after early August in zone 9 (July in zone 8) gardens. Pruning in fall should not be done for this very reason. 

Another part of the garden that my father-in-law took a lot of pride in was his flowering annuals.  Every year, he would plant the same orange geraniums and white-flowering bacopa in winter.  Once spring rolled around, he would plant red and white vinca.

I found myself taking over this job as well. When I would return home and see all there was to do in my neglected garden, but I didn't mind.  It felt so good to be able to control how his garden looked because ALS had taken control of everything else.

My father-in-law died in September 2011, just 11 months after being diagnosed with ALS.  

It's been almost 3 years since he passed away, but whenever August comes around and I find myself lightly pruning back my gold lantana - I enjoy the memory of one our last moments together in the garden as I pruned his lantana.

1 comment:

RobinL said...

The stories about your FIL and his meticulous yard always makes me chuckle, because my inlaws were always the same way. Over the years, every tree was removed from their yard for various reasons. This one dropped catkins everywhere, this one attracted too many birds, this one was bare inside, and on and on it went till there are no more trees left. They landscaped with volcanic rocks, which isn't proper here in the north, and annually, they would wash the rocks with special screens they built. Oy!


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